Masturbating, fucking, banging, making love – how do you have sex?
When it comes to sexual orientation, there's no "right" or "wrong." Where exactly vanilla ends and kink begins is something everyone should decide for themselves based on their own feelings. Essentially, we're just giving certain preferences names, which in turn represent a wide range of playful practices. Where one sex practice ends and another begins isn't clearly defined – and it doesn't have to be. Because you can have sex however you want without having to label it or commit to a specific sex practice. Sexuality isn't a competition, but as diverse as humanity itself. Each of us has different preferences, expectations, and needs. And satisfying these needs, having fun, and feeling good about it – that's what sexual experiences are all about. So we ask ourselves: What desires do you have or want to try? What's Your Way?*
Sex is: Romantic, special, routine
Solo Sex: You value your "me time"—because for you, it means consciously taking a break and creating moments of indulgence. Whether that means tender touches or a more intense solo experience doesn't matter. By actively caring for yourself, you like to show your body that you appreciate it. For your special moments alone, you create an environment where you feel completely comfortable and can enjoy yourself. Candles, relaxing music, or simply putting your phone on airplane mode.
Sex with a Partner: Extensive cuddling, sensual massages, intense kisses, and loving caresses are simply part of sex for you. The satisfaction of your partner is also paramount. Gentle foreplay ensures beautiful intimacy. No need for acrobatic feats – you know which positions work well and how to best connect with each other.
WE THINK YOU LIKE IT… VANILLA.
Sex is: diversity, freedom, imagination
Solo sex: Sexual pleasure means self-affirmation for you. You have a very stimulating imagination and have already fantasized about many a hot kink with your celebrity crush or a colleague, masturbating to it. Your Tinder profile quickly reveals what you're into and what you're not. You know your needs and how to satisfy them. Whether in your mind or in real life, you're into exciting games and enjoy slipping into different roles.
Sex with a partner: Various costumes take up space in your wardrobe. Nipple clamps, a whip, and a blindfold are always within easy reach in the drawer, and exciting BDSM toys are piling up in the AMORELIE shopping cart, grrr. Okay, okay, back to reality: Dominance doesn't automatically mean sadism. Latex and leather aren't hanging in every closet, and pain play isn't for everyone. Where exactly vanilla ends and kink begins varies from person to person. There's no competition. Whether it's a long-standing fetish or just light bondage and tickling with a feather... BDSM essentially describes a whole range of playful practices – and you're into exploring this diversity together.
WE THINK YOU LIKE IT... KINKY.
Sex is: Adventurous, exciting, experimental
Solo sex: Getting out of your comfort zone – that's your motto. You get bored quickly with routines, so you're generally drawn to places that offer a bit more of a challenge. When you indulge yourself, you prefer to do it with a partner for a particularly intense orgasm. There's hardly a spot on your body you haven't explored, because discovering new things means expanding your sexual horizons and constantly finding new heights of pleasure.
Sex with a partner: Sex in unusual locations, in challenging positions, and sex toys that don't immediately reveal how and where they're used – you're into these little (or not so little) thrills. You're always looking for new challenges and are open to new experiences. The world is ready. That's why you enjoy exploring and discovering all the possibilities. You might even have a "want-to-sex" list that includes something like: "Try anal play or involve a third (or fourth) person."
Sex with a partner: Sex in unusual locations, in challenging positions, and with sex toys that don't immediately reveal how and where they're used – these are the kinds of thrills you crave. WE THINK YOU'LL LIKE IT… WILD
Sex is: Curiosity, nothing set in stone, trying new things
Solo sex: Can't rattle off a list of 10 things you like in bed? We can put your mind at ease, because 1. Who can? And 2. There are no rules, no pressure, no goal. Because whatever feels good to you is right. Today it's your finger, and tomorrow it might be something else entirely.